Most of us never know what strong living is. The fear of failure keeps us away and restricts the growth of our natural talents into strengths.
We cannot bear with failures where we alone are held responsibe. When the causes for failure do not affect our self-esteem, we are at ease.
When we identify our natural talents, fashion them into strengths only to find them wanting in the hour of reckoning, the anguish is boundless. Such strength based failures and the consequent ridicule makes us settle for the second-best option - we avoid the exposure of building on our strengths,we stay in the workroom patching up our weaknesses. It is humble, diligent and society respects us for doing so.
The most challenging goal is to face up to the strength potential in your talents and live them boldly. Building a strong life means that you allow performance to be the final judge. Though your claims of strength may be judged unfavourably,unforgivingly and harshly.
Strong living means that you do not surrender to but overcome such judgements , yet not fall prey to delusion and denial.